UPDATE ON THE HOUSE. I have to tell you this house process is the worst thing I have gone thru in my life and that says a lot. It has been PURE HELL. I should have closed by now but this process never ends. It is one demand after another. I have wanted to give up several times but knew I couldnt. It has been discouraging and frustrating most of the time. I have never been able to get excited. My realtor told me a few wks ago he would have given up by now. He said he has never seen anything like it. He doesnt understand why they have been so difficult with me. So it boils down to this. My last extension ends tomorrow. Time has run out to close. The issue is the lender and the processor of the loan. They have drug their feet this whole time. They take forever to process info given to them. I understand my circumstances are little complicated due to some things that required additional documentation stemming from my divorce. My ex has gone above and beyond in his assistance in this process and at times it has been more painful for him. Most ex-husbands would not have done anything but he has met all their demands including handing over his bank statements to me on 3 different occasions because they are never satisfied with anything. I told them he is ready to divorce me again it has been so bad. My ex says he may as well be buying the house. **Thank you Eddie and Carmen for all your help and handing over all your private info to help us.** If they didnt want to give me the loan they needed to say so. I could have moved on and not wasted my time. I feel bad for the sellers to. They just want to sell their house. The processor of my loan said a couple disturbing things today. I got an email and her comment (not meant for me to see) was I will never work this file again. She also told my ex wife on the phone today that she was busy and had other things to when asked to clarify a few things pertaining to demands needed. She also states I have exhausted myself with this case. So I feel if I lose the chance to purchase this house it is due to the lender and the processor of the loan. This is where I stand. We are very close. My mortgage man says the only thing left for them to ask for would be my first born child. I have a current list of demands I will submit tomorrow (wed). I am sure there will be something else. If they would be satisfied we could present an intent to close date and see if the seller will accept. My realtor has reached out to the sellers with a couple offers to buy alittle time. I dont think they will wait any longer. If they dont agree I am back to where I started 3 1/2 months ago and no closer to bringing the boys home. :-(
Posted on: Wed, 14 Jan 2015 04:48:30 +0000
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