Umntu NgokaThixo - Introduction I woke up very early that morning, I prepared I- breakfast for my hubby, ran his bath, took out his work clothes then ndavasa nam , ndanxiba besilungiselela ukuya emsebebenzini. It was Friday, ibingumhla wokukhumbula ukuzimanya kwethu ngeqhina lomtshato. UMgwevu ebethule ebhalwe ukudineka nje apha ebusweni okokoko evukile,bekunqabe ukuthi enkosi or molo nja.. he did not even bother to say happy anniversary, I doubt he remembered anyway. After egqibile ukuzilungisa, ndibone ethatha ilaptop bag, esiya ngasemnyango ephuma Me: Happy Anniversary baby, you did not even touch your breakfast, He looked at me, endijamele kakubi kanjani,ibingathi uzakunditya Gugu:Mxiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiim, akamtsala lomnxim wakhe, ayisenkulu impumlo ngeloxesha He left . Someone who was watching us at a distance ebezocingba mhlawumbi sixabene or ikhona into endimqumbise ngayo, kanti akho kwanto endimenze yona except ukumthanda,nokumhlonipha qha. I was so determined ukuthi ndizakulonwabela ke bonanje olusuku, 12 years in marriage was not a childs play yhoo. Hayi sana, my other half on the other hand was on a mission yokundibonisa okokuba akandifuni qha, poor Sivuyile (Sivu), was so much in denial. During the day, ndiye ndamthumela whats up ..just reminding him of our dating days, only to be greeted with a profile pic of another woman and his status esithi My one and only Hayi ke ngoku itheni na le ndoda, lotata umdala phofu, he was way older than me, to be precise 15 years older than me. After work.. I dialed my Sista’s number, uhlala eRandburg yena. Me: Nomdade, ndizakuzo dropper abantwana tonight , Its our anniversary no Gugu, I just need to rekindle our marriage. Vuyo (My sista): What marriage ? kunini uzibhanxa ngomntu ongakufuniyo? .. and we both know he does not care about any thing that you do anyway, kunini ekuxelela ukuba akakufuni, ufuna ade athini umntwana abantu ? akubulale ? Me: He does not mean it, why eyithetha lonto xa eselile angayithethi xa esober? I am not like you andifuni ukuba ngumabuye kwendeni -- Vuyo: He he he , wandiqhawula ayisosithuko tuu ke eso kum ,actually it’s a nice title ,celebrating my courage to walk out in the midst of all the abuse that I was subjected to . And kungcono ndiyazi ukuba ndisingle,not le yokuba married single , Ke wena happily married ngabula wena, name one lousy thing that your so called husband ayenzayo kulondlu ebonisa ukuba utshatile ? Ebeleliphi izolo ? Ubungathi kum izolo oku,its been months engaku-touchy? khona sewude uzithuthe uhambisa abantwana ngobusuku , akazobuyanobuya nje , uyayazi lonto UVuyo ebendixelela ezinyani daily, to such an extent , bendingasam mameli anymore. Gugu had killed my self esteem with both his emotional and physical abuse. I was used and comfortable with his abuse... Mh Me: You will never understand yhazi , I did not ask you to be my mirror. uGugu ngumyeni wam, not owethu, waziwa ndim .. Can I please bring the kids? Vuyo: Uwo..uneeder uYesu ngobuqu mtase khaya, why do you hate yourself so much ? Why throwing away your life away, for a man who does not not give a damn about you ? what happened to my little sista, who was full of life, full of dreams ? Tears were now falling down , Nyani I don’t know what happened to uSivuyile, she was dead .. all that was left was Gugu’s punch bag. I kept quiet. Vuyo:Sivu …Sivu... zange ndimphendule .. I just dropped the phone , ndayicima An hour later, I drove with my 2 boys (Zonke 12 and Khwezi 10) to Randburg. I was not in the mood for another lecture from my sista, ndibethe nje ihooter, the kids got out of the car, when I saw her opening the front door. I drove away. Ndifike endlini uGugu engekabuyi as usually, I prepared a candle light dinner, I put on my new lingerie, our home was filled with the scent of my perfume. Hehake akabuya uGugu, it was not surprising though, atsha aphela nalomakhandlela. Ndothuke ngo 6 ekuseni, ndilele esofeni. Ndive lomntu undikhabayo, it was uGugu Ndithe ndisithi, ndisaphethwe bubuthongo, ndeva ngempama. Hayi kwalendela izihlangu. Tyhini wandibetha umntu engayazi nokokuba undibethela ntoni. All the things ebendizi-preparile for i-supprise dinner where now on the floor. The sad part, he was not alone, he came with a woman, in our matrimonial home, his one and only who was on his profile pic, all the time ndibethwa his mistress was all smile , ekhwezela, betha , betha baby UGugu uye wandiphakamisa, endibamba ngesixhanti phofu, wandiqweqwedisa ukuyondingenisa eroomini yethu, undithe xhimfi phantsi and called uBaby wakhe, who came running, they started making out in front of me , in our matrimonial bed.. Ps: This is just a glimpse to the next story... Will continue at 7000 in Jan as promised...kwaaaaaa
Posted on: Thu, 18 Dec 2014 12:45:43 +0000
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