Understanding grief... Its a wicked feeling as you begin to process loss... A sense of earthly permanence... A breaking of habits forced upon you by immediate change... The mind has no mechanism to grasp this immediacy as it strive to revert to what is normal... Find some sort of stability to gain some kind of equilibrium... The initial shock is absorb by people... Friends and family all finding a way to come to terms... Holding on to what remains... We find comfort in their hugs and their memories... Its all a part of the dust that must settle after the storm... Then the settling happens... The sun rises again and we look out in the distance and nothing is as it was before... The spiralling begins... We must set it free... being alone with our pain... We learn to hold on and not let go... Letting go is too painful... You work on remembering... Its in the memories that your tears are comforted with a smile... Then each day will be as it was before... Just a bit more smiles... Thanks you all for letting me share my grief and understanding... Love the comfort you give...
Posted on: Fri, 18 Jul 2014 18:36:35 +0000
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