WHY ARE GUYS SCARED OF COMMITMENT? I had an awesome session with some ladies earlier in Joburg CBD on Love and Relationships. One lady from the East Rand asked me why guys are scared of commitment. I told the there are a few things guys look at before they commit to a woman. I took them to a chapter in my book (How To Recover From a Breakup) wher I wrote extensively on why guys are scared of commitment. Guys dont commit to anyone until they are good and ready. Having the right partner has become a means to self-fulfillmment, achievement, and succes to guys. The environment in which women can get a lifetime partner is getting tougher all the time, therefore some of them can put pressure on their men to commit. Men are not as societally obligated to get married as women are. A forty year old man can allow himself to be single and still be considered successful and attractive. A man will see a woman as relationship material and commit to her only if she seems to offer great additional value to him, something that can improve his quality of life. Men want to upgrade their lives, they want an entry ticket to a new world, one that is better than the one they have or at least more interesting. The greater the overall additional value a woman offers, the bigger the chance that a guy will prefer her to other woman and be attracted to her and commit. This is very important to note; even if a man is excited by a lady, it is still important to him to ensure that his future relationship is SOCIALLY ACCEPTED and perceived by his RELATIVES and FRIENDS as an ACHIEVEMNT. So ladies, if a guy does not see or find any of the things I mentioned above in a woman, the likelyhood of him to commit is very slim (Get my book for deeper insight on this topic so that u can understand how men think).
Posted on: Mon, 28 Jul 2014 19:18:53 +0000
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