WHY WOMEN SETTLE FOR LESS IN RELATIONSHIPS? Women get to a certain age and panic. The fear of being alone can make them choose to enter into relationships with men that are all wrong for them. Is it really better to be in a bad relationship than be alone? Where do you find a good man these days? I have heard this question asked often and there is no simple answer. Coming from someone who has kissed her share of frogs, readers might say well, you have YOUR prince and might not like the advice that I am giving out. Here it is. Stop settling for less than you deserve. If you cannot seem to break the chain of choosing the wrong guy over and over then stop looking. You need to work on yourself. You cannot love someone else if you do not love yourself. Work on loving you for who you are and then you will be surprised at what happens. You will attract the right kind of man for you. It is true. Love will come when you are not looking for it. Think about coming across that pair of earrings that you misplaced so long ago. You found them when you were not even looking. The same will happen to your love life. If you get busy living your life being happy with who you are, you will become attractive to someone who is worthy of you. Anyone can meet the wrong guy. If you are feeling low and not great about yourself you send out signals to all those kinds of guys who are just anxious to take advantage of you. If you enjoy being a doormat, you probably are not even reading this,but if you dont, and would like to change, read on. The first thing you need to do is to accept yourself, faults and all. You are unique just the way you are. You are special and worthy of the best. The best is to have someone who respects you, is honest with you and can love you just the way you are. Yes, none of us are perfect. Do not expect that you are or anyone else will be. We always can make improvements to ourselves. If someone does not approve of you, they are not the person for you. If you know in your heart that you are someone who is worthy of being loved, do not settle for less than you deserve. Love should not be conditional. Someone either loves you for who you are or they dont. Dont change who you are to fit into someones mold of who they think you should be. Trying to be someone you arent is a miserable existence. It takes too much work to be someone you are not. Being yourself is easier.
Posted on: Wed, 22 Jan 2014 06:10:42 +0000