WORDS FROM A FATHER TO A SON ABOUT MARRIAGE > My son, if you keep spending on a woman and she never asked you if you’re saving or investing, and she keeps enjoying the attention, don’t marry her. > My son, a woman could be a good wife to you, some could be a good mother to your children but if you’ve found a woman like a mother to you, your children and your family, please don’t let her go. > My son, don’t confine the position of your wife to the kitchen, where did you get that from? Even in our days, we had farm- lands where they worked every morning . . . that was our office. > My son, if I tell you that you’re the head of the house, don’t look at your pocket; look if you will see a smile on your wife’s face and children. And always remember that you are the priest of your home. > My son, if you want to have a long life, let your wife be in-charge of your salary, it will be difficult for her to spend it when she’s aware of the home needs and bills to pay but if it’s in your care, she will keep asking even when all has been spent. >My son, don’t ever beat your woman, the pain in her body is nothing to be compared to the wound on her heart and that means you may be in trouble living with a wounded woman. >My son, now that you’re married, if you live a bachelor kind of life with your wife, you will soon be single again. Be home early and spend time with her and the kids >My son, under the cocoa tree that I did meet your mother could be your eateries and restaurants of nowadays, but remember, the closet thing we did there was to embrace each other. Be patient son! > My son, don’t be carried away when you start making more money, instead of spending on those tiny legs that never knew how hard you worked to get it, spend it on that woman that stood by you all along. > My son, remember, when you say your wife has changed, there could be something you’ve stopped doing too. > My son, don’t compare your wife to any woman, there are ways she’s enduring you too and has she ever compared you to any man? > My son, I met your mother a virgin and I took more yams to her father, if you don’t meet your wife a virgin don’t blame her, what I didn’t tell you is that our women had prestige. >My son, I didn’t send your sisters to school because I was foolish like many to think a female child won’t extend my family name, please don’t make that mistake, the kind of female achievers I see nowadays have made the male-gender an ordinary tag. >My son, your mother once burnt my clothes because she was angry, I did not raise my hand to beat her because of a day like this, so that I can be proud to tell you that I never for once beat your mother. >My son, in our days, our women had more of natural beauty, though I wouldn’t lie to you, some had minor painting of their appellation mostly on their arms, the ones you people now call tattoos, but don’t forget that they didn’t expose any part of their body like your women of nowadays. >My son, your mother and I are not interested in what happens in your marriage, try to handle issues without always coming to us. >My son, remember I bought your mother’s first sewing machine for her, help your wife achieve her dreams just as you’re pursuing yours. >My son, don’t stop taking care of me and your mother, it’s a secret of growing old and having children to take care of you too. >My son, pray with your family, there is a tomorrow you don’t know, talk to God that knows everything, everyday. Am looking forward to playing with my grand children. Like»share and share your view!!! Love life
Posted on: Mon, 22 Dec 2014 00:37:20 +0000
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