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Wanting reassurance from someone is only a band aid – a band aid to a non existing wound that will constantly keep on bleeding anyway, whatever you say and whatever the other one says to you! The one worried about should reassure the worrier? That never works - it is a reversal or a spin - the one worried about feels heavy and burdened, because the other one is worried – the one worried about should tell the worrier that all will be all right, which is in fact a bogus remark, because one can never know for sure – so, hence, the worrier will keep on worrying anyway , and the one worried about will keep on feeling burdened – STOP WORRYING, it does not help anyone. Henk Prijs, 2013
Posted on: Mon, 26 Aug 2013 10:43:45 +0000

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