We always say but you had a choice, and then we judge by saying and you made the wrong decision, and we emphasise that by saying look what happened now. We fail to understand these things: 1. Behind every decision there is a choice, but behind every decision made, there is a REASON. 2. Sometimes we may agree and some time we may disagree with the decisions of others, but we were NOT in their situation to understand the rational behind their decision. 3. Each person has the rights to decide, and we should respect that they have reasons behind the decision made, as long as that decision doesnt affect a bunch of us in a bad way. 4. We cannot predict the future, thus we cannot justify that a bad situation happens because of the particular decision that that individual has made. ...So let us not decide for others and let us not judge them. If you have a drop of humanity in you, help those who need assistance only to relieve them from their difficult situation, not to work towards your own agenda. Sharan Suresh
Posted on: Mon, 07 Apr 2014 03:05:59 +0000