We seem to live in a society of a tit for tat mentality , do to them as they do to me (and some individuals are disciplined in that and proud of it) example..you didnt call me am not calling you ,, you didnt text me am not texting you, you didnt like my post am not liking yours that sort of thing..but by doing that to your friends ,,,individuals you know ...how do we maintain healthy friendships that way ,,when we do things back to each other. ( and I use the plural we as I think its safe to say we all may have done this at some point ) is it because we feel /think they did what they did deliberately or is it really just how we took it and feel a bit rejected ..that kind of thing is so common placed in society if our perception is wrong then doing what we do back to someone based on what we wrongly perceive is also wrong and a sure way of creating a gap between us and our friends especially communication wise, once you start doing the things you dont like others doing to you , you then become just like them and the thing you dont like eventually becoming a miserable person who you yourself wont like .. folks we need to stop jumping to the wrong conclusions as to why others do things and stop planting seeds of resentment towards each other for petty reasons ,walk away from The things you dont like instead of trying to fight mental battles that you just dont need to be wasting your time and energy on ,treat others how you Would like to be treated ,,when others dont appreciate how you treat them or treat you in a like minded way dont become like them maintain who YOU ARE staying positive and strong save your time and energy for the positive friends you are sure of , family and people in your life and take that positive mature step into the new year ..food for thought ... peace
Posted on: Sat, 27 Dec 2014 21:09:48 +0000
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