We stay in relationships with people who drive us crazy emotionally because deep down we really do love them, and we see the best side of them, and we want to give them a chance. But sometimes a chance becomes chance after chance after chance, and you find yourself going absolutely bananas about the status of your relationship with this person you love so dearly and deeply, but who is never there for you. You start to buy into the excuses, you accept the lack of communication. Why? Because you love them. But at a certain point, if you don’t start tackling these issues head-on and if you don’t start seeing some improvements, you’re going to drive yourself mad and the only way out will be to remove yourself as quickly as possible. If you really love someone you should be willing to work thorough your problems, and I mean really work through them, not just talk about them from time to time. And if all fails: SHUT IT DOWN. It doesn’t necessarily mean you love them any less. It just means you love you more.
Posted on: Tue, 18 Nov 2014 01:27:39 +0000
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