Well, I will always remember the phrase what you give the person and he/she will give you back what you have given to them. I was once a troubled kid and I admit because I feel that I am unfavoured in the family members. When you adapt differential parenting (favouritsm), you have to AVOID that at all cost as it will create a great danger to your younger generations. I can see that the unfavoured children tend to build NEGATIVE PROTECTIVE BARRIERS (will see everything as evil) around themselves and eventually will be having a lot of troubles in the society. There are two outcomes: 1) POSITIVE PATHS: will not let this happen to other people or younger generations and correct themselves to be better constantly. 2) NEGATIVE PATHS: will be having vengeances or hates to EVERYONE and no matter how good you treat the troubled kids, they will still make sure you will receive the same amount of suffering inflicted or come to worst the troubled kid will commit suicide or killing people. I have GOOGLED on the internet and I do have many friends and their backgrounds. The children who are being treated with POSITIVE PARENTING AND FAIRNESS, they tend to be happier, successful and able to fit into society without any evil intentions. Whereas, those mistreated kids will be having a difficult time with the barbed protective barriers that will hurt all the people around regardless they are good or bad. CONCLUSION TO ALL YOUNG PARENTS, TREAT ALL YOUR CHILDREN FAIRLY (NO FAVOURITSM/NO DIFFERENTIAL PARENTING) WITH POSITIVE PARENTING, STRICT BUT LOVING. Differential parenting is a mental abuse and the invisible permanent scars imprinted in the heart is FAR MORE SCARY than the physical abuse that the flesh wounds can be healed in days but NOT THE BROKEN HEART. If the TRAGEDY HAPPENED, YOU CANNOT BLAME THE TROUBLED KIDS ALONE BUT LOOK BACK WHAT YOU HAVE GIVEN TO YOUR CHILDREN UNFAIRLY AMONG THE SIBLINGS. I hope I will still maintain my sanity as I did found some cases on the Internet of the kids in the same condition as me and I DO NOT WISH TO BE LIKE THEM. I am glad I still keep my sanity, keep my duty as a son (filial piety) and trying to shed my protective barrier day by day although I am still NOT FULLY HEALED.
Posted on: Wed, 23 Jul 2014 19:41:29 +0000
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