Well im probably about to offend some people...but oh well, freedom of speech, its one of the things that obama hasnt taken from us yet. Im reading an artical, the title is whats a good mom whats a bad mom and so of course I read my mind and a storm of thoughts start going through my head. This is my opinon so remember its not nessasarly right, but what I believe in and also remember I am still a new mom and still have some learning to do and I am an open minded person. A good mom starts in the begining, she doesnt smoke and kill her babies brain cells and immun system and doesnt risk the baby being born with health problems and under weight a mom that smokes while prego with her baby is being selfish and needs to improve a bad mom leaves her baby with someone once or more a week and goes partying a good mom defently breastfeeds or at least pumps for a few weeks so they can get vital nutrients (moms really need to study up on breast feeding and research just how important it really is) bad mom feeds baby nothing but junk food good mommy lets dad completely take over the care giving routin every now and then and she walks away to take a breath and lets him do some learning about baby for his self lol this is one of my favs. this is some of the main things i focus on and truley believe in as a mom Idk how I pictured my self as a mom but its how i turned out, and I know that as time goes on and i have more babies somethings will change but Ill always do try to raise oliver and future babies to the best of my ability and judgement. I literally spend every seconond of everyday with oliver with an exception of 3 times in 7 mths but I wouldnt have it any other way he continues to make me a better person with every day that goes by and I know God has blessed me more than I can put into words
Posted on: Wed, 02 Oct 2013 02:45:14 +0000