Went to see Chasity today for the first time. Seems to be doing ok, staying positive and knowing now that she did and will always now have a problem with this. The things I learned today were amazing and brought tears to my eyes but gave me a little more understanding on what was happening, why and what to expect. Please anyone if you can find the time and you would not mind write her a letter she really could use positive feelings and knowing that you care. The address again is Gateway Rehabilitation Center, 100 Moffett Run Rd. Aliquippa PA 15001. I have let this tear me down probably at the lowest I have ever been in my whole life but anyone who can say they really know me knows that I have always dealt with my problems on my own figuring I could handle just about anything , up until now besides making me defensive and right about everything lol , I found out I cant do this on my own. I keep telling her that it does not matter about anyone else at this point that her main focus is HER and until she can help herself not to worry about anyone else. Maybe I should once take my own advice. I have no clue how many others are going through this or have gone through this. But I can tell you You are not alone. If you see the signs , notice them. Its not always just a teenager growing up or just at that age, it may have used to have been but things are not like they were when we were growing up. Grades falling , focusing on nothing , losing interest in things that used to be really important, lack of energy, or just a huge turn around from what they used to be like. Its not their fault and its not our fault its bad decisions and society. But I have found out in the past week so many other families going through the exact same things, people who have thought they were along and had no one else to talk to. I really appreciate all the support this week and to come. Just remember I keep asking for those of you who care about Chasity to write her , if in any or all of those letters or cards she can find herself and someone to relate to again maybe it could help.
Posted on: Mon, 22 Sep 2014 00:14:32 +0000