What I want to say is that trust is a circle. And Love, is letting go. We learn by trial and error. Sometimes when we error, it is on someone elses time. And they can be hurt, on our learning-time. But that falter is a part of what can make us a greater friend, a greater person, a more worthy lover and... a wiser member of our journey in this human evolution. The trick is to be gentle, with our judgements. And kind, in any event. Forgiveness is for-giving. It is not for the other, but for the self - really. Forgiveness allows the heart to stay open and remain a portal for the light that is un-ending This is the source of tolerance, of understanding, of grace, of sacred-space. For some one may have wronged you. But at another time, it may be you who did the wrong to the other. Even, and usually, if you didnt mean to - Trust, is a circle. An experiential wheel that turns round and round You can call it Karma... I call it, Evolving. You can feel as though someone owes you something, but then that is debt that you are also carrying ... where you have to meet that soul again and again until you and they can set it clear and they give you what you feel you need. It is a tether, no matter what side of the cord of forever... you are holding. I say, release the need and you will fee more .... personally free. Better to be let your life be free and clear of repayment. Forgive your trespasses... Giving to others what you can, if you can, to allow them to feel healed and a sense of release. (This is more important than being right. One more thing that I, myself, am learning in hindsight...) And releasing the feeling that anyone owes you anything. Because when you feel that somone owes you... you keep the tension in the line of connection and it colors your re-la-tion-ship. Allowing the need for anyone to give you anything is a wonderful place to be, because you can actually do this. It is a place where your power, is total. So... Trust is a circle. We must learn by doing. Sometimes when we are doing, we mis-step and someone else is hurt on our time. But then, they have the ability to develop their capacity for For-Giving. Which is equally important to develop. Perhaps we can all learn to trust that we are doing our best. Our best being relative, to the love we have been given and the positive guidance we have been shown. And some of us have more of this, than others... ya know. And in any event - Love, is letting go. This, I know.
Posted on: Tue, 09 Sep 2014 19:52:58 +0000
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