What does our voice tell other about how we want to be treated? The invisible truth is - the way people treat us is affected by subconscious vibes that we send out. Unconsciously they are affected by our unconscious messages. A good portion of relationships occurs below our conscious minds. People react to the subtle energy we send out...that we are may not be aware of. However, we can increase our consciousness, by focusing on our thinking and feelings as we interact with people. Focus on tiny feelings that we may not even be able to put into words. What we think and feel will carry our words. Our voice is a bridge to others. We subconsciously and habitually tell people how we want to be treated as quickly as we introduce ourselves. What voice do we use, when we say our name? Let say our name several times and feel how it sounds. These questions will help analyze our subtle messages to others: · Do we love our name as it comes out of our mouth? Do you even like your name? Can you say your name as if it is the most special sound in the world? · What are we feeling? Proud? Insecure? Suspicious? These feelings are part of our messages. They are not hidden. · What is the speed volume, pitch, EQ of our name? Try saying your name and changing each one of these items. Which ones sound the best? · What is our posture, which affects our voice? · Where does our name vibrate in our body? Our head? Our gut? Our nose? Try saying your name and think of a different area of your body and watch your voice change? · Do we change the pitch at the end of our name? Does it go up or down? · Do we say our name like a question, expressing uncertainty about who we are and what we want? · Do we swallow our breath? Do we say our name in the front or the back of our mouth? Do we want to reach out to them or hope they come chasing after us? We should feel and think - as we want to be treated. Our feelings carry on our vices - whether or not we are aware of it. We are more responsible for how others treat us than we realize. A simple thing - our voice - can make all the difference in the world.
Posted on: Sat, 09 Nov 2013 00:11:24 +0000