What is described in here is a natural human relationship. So long as there is no verbal and/or physical abuse, and both parties agree to become fully honest and transparent with each other no matter what, and there is no maliciousness, these negative things are part of adjustment and growing up. The great thing with my beloved was, if I was the one who was negative, he stayed quiet and did not add fuel to my fire. Likewise, when he was the offender, I kept quiet and did not add fuel to his fire. There were times that we did not speak with each other for the whole day, just went on our daily routine, but we made sure that we did not sleep with grudges on each other. Even during the darkest time of our relationship, we remained friends. He would tell me that he got offended, or I would tell him that I got offended, then we made up and promise to avoid those kinds of altercation in the future. Once a relationship is marred by maliciousness or mental reservation, it will be harder to repair. Jealousy is part of the growing up, but lack of trust is another animal that both parties have to tame. With me and my beloved, we mutually acknowledged our individual differences and we met halfway, even in foods. It took years, but it turned out to be a pleasant relationship at the end. And such relationship can only be possible when mutual true and genuine Love is present!
Posted on: Sun, 17 Aug 2014 03:49:56 +0000
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