What is unconditional Love? Within the relationship itself, unconditional love is the ability to love the other person as. they are in their essence. If you have fallen in love with this person and want to build a lasting relationship with them, then you must view them as a unique individual — not as an extension of yourself. When you find someone who loves you as you are, and you are able to love them as they are, it is an amazing experience. They may be. different from you in many ways. They may view the world differently and have habits that you don’t share, but you can embrace these differences because they are part of this unique person you love. But is love enough to build a lasting relationship? And does unconditional love mean that no matter what your partner does, your feelings don’t change? The answer is “no” to both. Unconditional love within the context of a good relationship is a dance in which both partners participate. You begin with the essentials of self-love and mutual love and respect. You see and embrace the core of the other, their innate personality and worldview. You acknowledge the influences of their upbringing, life experiences, and ingrained behaviors. But . . . unconditional love within the context of a lasting relationship requires lots of wiggle room. As part of self-love, you know your own personal boundaries and the limits of what you find to be acceptable and healthy behaviors and reactions from your beloved. When both partners are aware of their personal boundaries and are committed to communicating them in loving and non-threatening ways, then the relationship can continue to recalibrate and grow ever stronger over the years. With the ability to communicate openly, negotiate willingly, and compromise and make adjustments, you can build a strong relationship in which unconditional love develops and grows more satisfying over time. For both partners, unconditional love means putting the health of the relationship above all else. This is a conscious decision made by both people...
Posted on: Thu, 31 Jul 2014 14:44:48 +0000
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