Whats On My Mind? I Am Sure Glad You Ask......Ok Ladies and Gentlemen, Men and Women and Boys & Girls.....I hear a lot of people ask, WHY CAN I NOT FIND A GOOD WOMAN? OR WHY CAN I NOT FIND A GOOD MAN? Heres a solution to everybody problem. We, as individuals attract the type of partner upon how we carry ourselves, how we treat others, knowing what we are really worth and from the type of mindset that we have. The mindset plays a huge part in our lives altogether. There are 2 types of mindsets and they are a fixed mindset and a growth mindset. A person with a FIXED mindset is that person that has been doing the exact same thing in their life for years and theres no way that they are willing to change or will ever change because they have become so comfortable with the way that they conduct and confide in themselves and it doesnt matter what you say to this person to try to help them better their self, its just simply a waste of time. A person with a FIXED mindset avoids challenges, gives up easily, doesn’t and want put into effort to try hard, ignore USEFUL judgment, and has the tendency to feel intimidated by others. A person with a GROWTH mindset, which I solely consider myself to be; is a person that learns from their mistakes, fix them, and do better the next time, dont let small to minor situations hold you back from completing or achieving your goals on a daily basis. Take advice from others in the areas that we are weak in. A person with a GROWTH mindset consists of accepting challenges, keeps trying until they succeed, learns from criticism and/or negativity, and acknowledge the success of others. A PERSON WITH A FIXED MINDSET BE THE MAIN ONES THAT SWEARS THAT A PERSON WITH THE GROWTH MINDSET HATES ON THEM DAILY.(smh). MY POINT OF IT ALL IS.............GET YOUR MIND RIGHT FIRST, THEN YOU MAY SEEK YOUR PARTNER THAT BEST FITS WITH YOU AND FOR YOU, BUT UNTIL THEN, Dont complain about the no good this and the no good that, that you attracted yourself to or that attracted you to them, because we all attracts ourselves to the type of person that we really are deep within. Everybody on this earth is not a good man or a good woman or a good girl or a good boy, because we all have flaws or had flaws one time or another in our life, but its all up to us to fix our self-first before we begin to accuse others for why they are not a Good Man or a Good Woman. What you think that you are doing well in life just may not be good enough for the satisfaction of others. Check and fix who you really are first, then who knows what just may happen for you and to you in your near future. Also, know what you are really worth and stop settling for less. NOW, WHAT IS YOUR CURRENT MINDSET STATUS???????????
Posted on: Sun, 14 Sep 2014 00:59:59 +0000