When I hear a female suggest that her ex has downgraded when he’s moved on to someone else…..I think it’s quite comical. MOST of the time, this is said simply because of looks/physical trait that she believe isn’t so attractive; when in fact, the Upgrade lies in how well she can connect with him on a deeper level (i.e mentally, emotionally, spiritually), something that you may can’t comprehend because you were too busy being his personal pandhandler, always having your hands out, expecting to receive, and never bringing anything to the table, but complaints, ungratefulness, and drama. So instead of looking at YOU and where you may have dropped the ball in that failed relationship, you direct your attention and focus on something doesn’t even concern YOU (their relationship). And instead of congratulating him on being able to move forward, you act out in bitterness and throw stones towards another sistah that really doesn’t even know you, never spoke with you, and more than likely THEY BOTH don’t feel the need to discuss you in THEIR personal “pillow talks” because their focus is more so on looking for ways to build an empire together, developing a successful relationship, while you’re over there MISERABLE, confused, and BEWILDERED. Smh. GROW UP….take a look at YOU, work on YOU, and leave your comments to yourself. It speaks more on YOU and your character flaw than it does on her. Stop hating…………you’ll get another chance.....but that time will never come if you’re concern and focused on something that has NOTHING to do with you (THEIR BEAUTIFUL COURTSHIP). #Bitterness is so unattractive #Slandering another sistah is HIGHLY UNattractive #that is all!
Posted on: Wed, 23 Jul 2014 15:41:29 +0000
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