When someone you know of is in a deep depression and explains the entire situation, dont ever say I know or I feel your pain. Heres my reason why: youve never went through what theyre going through. In other words you havent walked in their shoes. Its like being rude when you interrupt a speech all because you know better than them. The best way to go about it is to listen and be silent without interrupting. During that time, the Lord will show you the right words to speak comfort and encouragement. Then when thats person is done, whatever the Lord has for you to speak, speak. Another great way is to just say I dont know the pain youre going through but I do want to help in whatever way possible. Just simple guidelines to being that godly encourager.
Posted on: Wed, 13 Nov 2013 00:55:48 +0000