When the concept of marriage is ignite, my bachelors mind limp from its rest. It hugs indistinct thoughts and spin questions like a lottery, yet at a point the theory seems to elude abstract. Marriage in recent era should be by choice and not by force like our great grand parents, so it is important you look for a guy/lady you truly love and your heart blesses. Don’t marry out of pressure or suggestion by family or friends cos they will all disappear after the wedding. And thats when marriage starts. When you marry a man/woman you truly love, when there are crisis or challenges, the first statement from you won’t be, “I want a divorce,” rather it would be “how can I solve this situation?” Why? Because you love him/her! There are relationships you keep breaking up and making up, thinking you have learnt your mistake but in marriage breaking up is devastating. Its not an option. Such unions should be analysed deeply before marriage. Getting married to a true friend matters alot. I keep saying you cant cope in marriage. You cant prepare in marriage, you prepare for marriage. A true friendship create unforgettable memories. Friends dont think of hurting one another. They protect their interest. They forgive each other. Friends are not scared of each other, there is always communication between them. You know who your true friend is when you have a problem. DO NOT SETTLE DOWN BECAUSE OF PRESSURE, YOU MAY END UP BEEN A BED WARMER. NB: The decision is yours.
Posted on: Fri, 31 Oct 2014 10:23:22 +0000
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