When we compare ourselves to others, we inevitably compare our weaknesses (real or imagined) with others strengths; a self-sabotaging and self-defeating exercise. If this is true in everyday life, it is true times ten in the widowed community. Do not compare your Healing Journey to any other widowed...not to widowed who lost their beloveds at the same time or in the same way or at the same age – no one. Other widowed are on THEIR Healing Journeys. You need to be on and respect YOUR Healing Journey and your own processes which are unique to YOU. Rather than pay too much attention to what everyone else is doing (and when and / or how they are doing it), pay attention to YOU. Pay attention to how YOU want your Healing Journey to unfold and what YOUR future holds. Others are doing things in their own way and in their own time. You deserve the same privilege.
Posted on: Mon, 12 Jan 2015 09:49:20 +0000
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