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When we lose our loved ones, One of the hardest things to overcome, is the Thought of The Passing... Weather it was sudden and tragic, or Slow and painful, or prior to birth, or natural, there are far too many to list.. In each and every reading that I have done, when someone dwells on the day of their Loved Ones Passing, I find that their Loved Ones in Heaven want me to remind them, My Passing is not the reason that you Love Me so much. My Passing was not what put a smile on your Face. Our Greatest Memories Made, were not the day that I passed. Remember me for How I Lived. I too have Tragically Lost someone very close to me, in a Sudden Motorcycle Accident. But, the moment of his Passing, wasnt what I Loved Him for.. I Loved his Smile, His Sense of Humor, His Unconditional Love, His Warm Hugs.. Each Time I find myself trying to Play Out his Passing in my Head, I make a Conscious decision now, to replace that thought with one of the Reasons that I Love Him the Most. I know it wont bring him back. But, when I keep his Memory alive within me, He is truly never gone. People often come to me with Guilt.... There are too many reasons to list their reasons for carrying it.... I didnt get to say goodbye I Wasnt able to be there for the passing or the Funeral The last things we said to each other were awful... When someone passes, it truly happens just as it should have. If you werent there to see them pass, then you were meant to remember them as they were when they lived. If you had harsh words with them, it is a lesson for you to ensure that you choose your words to be filled with love in the future. But, whatever the guilt you are carrying, please, I ask you to do this... Mentally take all of the Guilt you carry, Place it all in a Beautifully Decorated Steel Box that you also create with your Mind... Now, Slam the Lid shut on this box, and Lock it with a Beautiful key that only you carry.. Okay, Hand this Box to GOD... He will keep it safe for you, as it is no longer your box to carry. Is there life after death? Can my loved ones hear me? Are they watching over me? It is only human to ask these questions. As a Psychic Medium, it is my lifes mission to answer these questions with validations, evidential information, and beautiful messages from your loved ones in Heaven. The Answer is YES! I had a lady on a phone reading once ask me if her Sister in Heaven could see her still today? I replied back to her, Why is your Sister Showing me a Large Bowl of Ice Cream when you ask me that? The lady on the phone Gasped and said Oh WOW!!! My Husband is right behind me Dishing up a Big Bowl of Ice Cream right now!... You see... That was her Sisters way to say... YES! The validations that come through from loved ones, range anywhere from Seeing accomplishments in school, to bringing up a family celebration that just happend because they attended it from Heaven as well, or things that have been done in memory of them since their passing (Memorial Tattoos, Personal License Plates, Shrines in the home, ect). They see our children grow. They know that someone shares a name with them. I couldnt begin to list all that they know and see, because, they hear your words to them and they hear your thoughts of them. They are the Wind in your hair. They are the Sunlight on your face. They are the sand beneath your toes. They are the cool breeze that blows past your cheek.. Heaven is Truly all around us. I dont think you have to find a Medium to find healing... If you do, please do your research beforehand, to ensure they are reputable and would truly help you to find healing.. I have had far too many clients come to me who had gone to just any Psychic they had found in a listing. Please know that if you go to a True Psychic/Medium, that you should NEVER have to give ANY INFORMATION to the Psychic up front. You should not even tell them who it is you want to hear from. It should truly all come from the psychic. You may validate back to the Psychic each message or validation as it comes to you through them, but, do not tell them any extra with it. You do not want a psychic to give you what they Think you want to Hear.. You want them to give you what is Truly Coming through from Heaven with No Gimmicks required. I put this here, because, I have had many clients who were worse off after a reading from someone who claimed to be Psychic and truly hurt them with false messages. You should leave your reading filled with Love and Feeling like you just spent that entire conversation with your Loved Ones in Heaven There are signs all around you... Sometimes our Grief is so painful, that we miss all of the amazing and beautiful signs that are around us. We all want to feel comforted knowing that the spirits of our loved ones are still with us once theyve passed away. These five common signs from heaven give us that comfort and peace of mind. All we need to do to receive the signs is open our hearts! Visions, Invisible Touch, Smells, Dreams, Moving Objects...... They have the ability to send Birds, Songs, Butterflies, Coins... I could go on and on.... What signs do your Loved Ones Send you???... If you dont think your loved one sends signs, your grief may be so deep that you just havent noticed them yet.. It is okay and that is completely normal.. Please know that they are there, waiting for you, and working on your Healing through Signs that they are with you.... Remember them... Honor them... Celebrate their Life and how they lived... THEY NOW LIVE THROUGH YOU! If you truly approach each day as though you are living your life for them and in their Honor... How would you spend each day? Would you Travel and take a memento of theirs with you on the trip? Do you eat their favorite foods? Do you still visit that favorite place that you spent time together? If they live their life through your eyes, what do they see? Do they watch you laying in bed with your eyes filled with tears? Or do you take them with you on amazing adventures and include them every step of the way? Only you can decide... I can tell you, THEY WANT TO SEE YOU LIVE!!!!!!! Write a letter to them with all of your hopes and dreams... Write down your favorite memories of them and have each family member read one memory on Christmas Morning with the family sitting around the tree. Plant a tree in their honor and tend to it with care as you speak to them. Whatever you do, Include them.... If love could have saved them, they would have lived forever
Posted on: Mon, 19 Jan 2015 23:41:10 +0000

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