When you become a parent...the biggest mistake you can make is putting others including yourself before your child. They didnt ask to come into this world nor did they want to be put in any kind of situation youre in. People think everything is fine if theyre kid is in a safe house but they fail to remember they must also be in an emotionally stable environment. No matter the bullshit I try to stay stable and put out neutral vibes because my son is feeding off of my energy. I have noticed if I am upset and i let it affect me it affects him too. If people are a negative influence in your life you have to shut them down or put them on the back burner to cool off for awhile. No one should get in the way of properly taking care of your child. And being in a generally good/neutral mood is one of the things that you need to do so. And honestly if youre the type that cant find happiness on your own, like me, then there is nothing more rewarding then investing ALL of your happiness in your child and no one else. Its a basic guarantee youll stay happy longer anyways. You cant argue with family when you have a baby who wants your attention and is hungry. You can cry over a boy or babydaddy when your baby is crying for cuddles. Ive came to the realization that no one should permanently affect me any longer because my child is my future. Think about your child before you think about yourself people.
Posted on: Wed, 20 Aug 2014 07:39:46 +0000
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