Where does the spark and infatuation from the beginning go? Its crazy how quickly you can go from being excited to talk to a person to feeling like youre forcing conversation. The quality time turns into, I was working and the consistent communication turns into, I dont know. When does, I hate to see you leave turn into, It hurts too much to stay? Maybe were all guilty of taking things for granted, or letting our fears stop us from taking certain chances. Maybe we think we can make love appear when it is convenient, or maybe we dont realize the effort required to keep a good thing good. Maybe we think that happiness is something that just finds us, instead of being something we work for and choose to have. And maybe that is why we all get it wrong so often. Its amazing how fast things change... You go from laughing about everything to arguing about everything. You have to go through the motions wondering if they are real, if they really care or if they are going to run when it is rough. You want to give more of yourself to somebody but its hard these days because you just never know if youll get anything back. You think you have it all down. You do little things, you stay consistent, but somehow it just doesnt add up. Maybe the problem is that we expect the love to be magical before we become magicians. Or could it be that we are all just better breakers than builders? Wed rather have feelings that we can just throw away and love thats disposable. Lord forbid a situation require us to grow, learn more and actually put in work. Reality is rough. You only want what is easy and thats why what you get never lasts. Everybody wants to be fought for but nobody is willing to fight. She loves the butterflies she gets when she thinks about him but she avoids beginnings because she hates to start over. Hes exhausted but hes so used to the chase that he is scared to stop running. Makes you wonder... Is love really hard or are people just difficult? :::Food For Thought:::
Posted on: Mon, 11 Nov 2013 15:10:23 +0000