Why do we need to communicate to other people? Have you ever wondered some part of your life, that there is a person without even knowing that you had a connection without communicating with that person? And some event, that we tend to communicate to every person and find a hard time connecting with them? I Find this article very interesting about communication and connection. here is one of the story. A saint who was once visiting a river to take a bath found a group of family members on the banks, shouting in anger at each other. He turned to his disciples, smiled and asked. Why do people in anger shout at each other? The disciples thought for a while, then one of them said, Because we lose our calm, we shout. But, why should you shout when the other person is just next to you? You can as well tell him what you have to say in a soft manner, asked the saint. The disciples gave some other answers but none satisfied the other disciples. Finally the saint explained, When two people are angry at each other, their hearts distance a lot. To cover that distance they must shout to be able to hear each other. The angrier they are, the stronger they will have to shout to hear each other to cover that great distance. What happens when two people fall in love? They dont shout at each other but talk softly, because their hearts are very close. The distance between them is either nonexistent or very small... The saint continued, When they love each other even more, what happens? They do not speak, only whisper and they get even closer to each other in their love. Finally they need not even whisper, they only look at each other and thats all. That is how close two people are when they love each other. He looked at his disciples and said, So when you argue do not let your hearts get distant, do not say words that distance each other more, or else there will come a day when the distance is so great that you will not find the path to return. Communication, tends to boil down with interchange of ideas, knowledge, sales, etc, very best example in call center. that you communicate without feeling the other person that mostly revolves on the physical side. But in connection - This were people tend to connect with one another; in terms of how are you concern about their life?. how do you want to be a part of their lives. that you want to know more about his life, than on what his outlook like. that you focuses more on empathy. this is all of our 5 senses are active. because as john maxwell said “People dont care how much you know until they know how much you care”
Posted on: Thu, 27 Mar 2014 03:29:48 +0000
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