Why is advising Muslim women becoming so difficult nowadays? Many reasons, not just one. It seems everything is exported from the West to the rest of the world. Reasons like: The rise of feminist groups, female “sharee’ah“ councils, emergence of female “Imaam“ leading the Jamaa’ah, rise of domestic violence, exposure of TV and Internet, crime committed against women folk like wife bashing etc, excluding women from the mosques, widespread of dayyooth men, keeping Muslim women uneducated from the knowledge of Islaam and fiqh and many more other reasons which made Muslim women so hard hearted that they don’t accept even when a sincere advise comes to them! When it is said to them, wear the Islaamic Jilbaab, don’t use foul language, keep the correct ‘aqeedah, don’t go to shrines and graves, don’t grow nails, don’t wear perfume when you go out, fear Allaah, don’t upload your photos online, don’t mingle with men and similar types of advices which are actually the fundamental teachings of Islaam – they say, “Mind your own business”! This is ironic that when a Muslimah is advised to abide by the Sharee’ah, they say these types of sentences because our past is full of women who used to teach their husbands! (رسول الله (صلى الله عليه و سلم said, “The most hated of speech to Allaah is when one man says to another, ‘Fear Allaah,’ and the other says, ‘Mind your own business!’” (al-Silsilah al-Saheehah by al-Albaanee, no. 2598) As men we should accept our sin in shame that we kept our women folk away from mosques, away from the Islaamic institutions, away from the Deen of Allaah. And when we wanted to marry, we did not look for these types of women who dedicated their lives for the message of Islaam, rather we wanted to marry those women who can cook delicious, who can clean neatly, who can serve us and our families like a slave. As men we should not forget this universal principle, ‘demand and supply goes hand in hand‘. Downsum Why is advising Muslim women becoming so difficult nowadays?
Posted on: Sat, 15 Jun 2013 06:15:44 +0000
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