Woe unto you if you are the reason a boy or girl is having a problem in his or her relationship. He or she is roaring around like a wounded lion looking for whom to emotionally devour. You were the first to hit it and he or she thought you loved him or her, but you never did. You never told him or her the truth initially, but when he or she has given it all,becomes emotionally vulnerable, you then discover a reason why you no longer love him or her. Why didnt you discover such reason from the onset? You better change your ways now. You know yourself better than I do. Stop suffering that innocent boy or girl,let her go because you know you dont love him orbher. He or she gave you their precious heart but you shattered it because of your lustful nature. You think you are the master or mistress gigolo huh? you better change your ways. You know yourself.... you have given him or her wrong signal about what love is all about because of your selfish nature. You want to have them all,Olivia and oliva twist. You have that wisdom,you know very well that it wont last,but you want to have a taste...is it your mothers soup or your fathers snuff box? you better change your ways. If you are a victim,please Calm down,you can learn to love again. Dont punish that innocent boy or girl who genuinely loves you because you know he or she is not the cause of your emotional instability. Take your time to reestablish a strong mutual emotional attraction which goes beyond words, which you cannot find words to explain. The eyes say so much on how far you are attracted to someone. It is time to tell ourselves the truth. You cant give two people your heart but rather one person. Mind who you will give it to,and make sure you will spend the rest of your life with him or her. Dont give half nor share because you will definitely not be totally happy. All I want is your happiness. Love is not bad,but our attitude and opinion towards it does. If someone loves you,ask him or her whY. If he or she gives you a reason,then know that he or she does not love you because he or she will find thousand reasons to leave you tomorrow. Any one that loves you should JUST love you,no reasons....hey I said NO REASONS....Even if the reasons are good,he or she may leave you because of a bad reason instead of helping you to work on them. Jesus had no reason why he died for us,just because he loves us and his love transcends reasons,let not one tell you reasons because love is beyond what we say which can often be denied.Never rush to tell someone You love him or her,try as much as possible to create strong attraction with non verbal signs like eye contact,physical touch,act of service,quality time and words of affirmations so that when the word love is finally uttered,both of you wont be surprised.
Posted on: Mon, 03 Nov 2014 09:25:49 +0000