YOU cant run to your friends each time you have a problem with your man or woman and expect your friends to respect him or her. Even if the two of you solve your problems they will still see him or her as a problem. You didnt consult them when you proposed her or when you accepted the proposal, why then do you run to them when you have problems? When you wanted to be in a relationship did you honestly think a relationship is a bed of roses? Your friends have their own problems, do they run to you each time? Some dont, its because they would rather not take out their dirty laundry to their friends to see but they calm down as a couple and start washing the laundry together. You wont even see last night they slept in different bedrooms...they respect each other! When you run to people each time, they will eventually get tired of hearing that and tell you to break up and give you points and all those advises, but did they care to listen to the other side of the story? Clearly, the advise is not well balanced. Youd lose someone youve known for years for a 30 second advise that is biased. The way you solve your problems says a lot about the kind of person you are. Respect your partner even in front of your friends, they too will respect him or her. Disrespect your partner, they too will disrespect and belittle her or him. Dont blame them - you brought it all yourself! A person who runs to friends when he/she cant solve his/her problems gives his/her friends something to talk about. Your relationship problems will be a gossip column...your friends friends and their girlfriends and boyfriends will know all about it even after the two of you have settled quarrels. And remember not all your friends want to see you happy, you excite them when you tell them you and your man/woman are fighting. #MDM
Posted on: Wed, 20 Nov 2013 06:58:36 +0000
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