Yesterday a dear friend and I were out for a bit. As we talked she kept asking me loads of questions about me. She spent a lot of af time focused on me, so to speak. In fact, it suddenly struck me later that I barely asked her any questions about her! Lol! It is not that I did not care or anything but she was so into me and what I was doing and feeling that she just had lots to ask and say and, I was just answering and then we would then go off on another topic. She made me feel special. Surely someone gets what I mean? As I write this I tell you that one of the best gifts you can give a friend is your time and attention. I do not mean some thing you say or do just to get them off your back but genuine love and care. We all want attention. Anyone who says they dont want anyone giving them attention is lying or has some issues within to sort out. Not a yab or insult. Anyway, people just want to know they matter to you. The way we relate with them goes a long way in showing whether or not they mean anything to us. Our presence and attention is one of the ways to show then this. These things matter and build great relationships or ruin them. Did you know that some folks dont even want nor need you to solve their problems? They just want you to listen. Some people just need it from us and we are so wrapped up in us we forget. Some dont even care. We expect them to get it and just know we care. I dont believe you must keep proving to someone you love them but nonetheless it is something I believe you must regularly say and show. It is needful. Friend with friend, lover with lover. Let them see and hear and feel the love you have for them. #TheLoveWalk
Posted on: Sun, 25 May 2014 10:06:17 +0000
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