You Decide This is an old lesson, but it bears repeating and remembering. We don’t have to let anyone control our lives, our choices, our joy. No matter how well we thought we learned that lesson, it often reappears. Another person starts to pull our strings. We get involved, entangled, hooked in. We hear ourselves singing an old tune - If only she would, if only he wouldn’t, then I would be … We realize that once again we have given up too much control. We have deferred our lives to the wishes, whims, and choices of another. Yes, if we are living fully, we will have reactions to those around us. Our relationships will help shape us, teach us things. And yes, there are times when we are so connected to others, love them so much, that their path does affect ours. But we don’t have to let another person control our choices, our behaviors, or our lives. Maybe she will. Maybe he won’t. But what about you? What do you want? What course of action feels right for you? For your life? Do you want to assign responsibility for whether you take that course to another? Do you really? Sometimes, no matter how much you love others, it’s time to let go, time to let them walk their path. Time to realize that it is your responsibility to walk your own. Go in love. Go in peace. Go in gentle power. You are responsible for your choices. It doesn’t matter what the other person does. You are still responsible for you. Take care of yourself, then take it one step further. Love, nurture, honor, and respect yourself. Only you can decide what you’re going to do. ~ Melody Beattie, Journey to the Heart
Posted on: Wed, 04 Dec 2013 09:18:46 +0000
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