You do not have to tolerate people who treat you poorly. It does not matter if it is a friend, a family member, or a partner. It does not matter how long you have known them for or how nice they have been to you in the past -- you are allowed to call people out on their abusive behavior. You are allowed to set boundaries about what you are and are not willing to tolerate. You are allowed to vocalize how their abuse makes you feel. You are allowed to share those feelings and experiences with other people. And if necessary, you are allowed to leave and distance yourself. You have every right to stand up and say, I love you and I really want you to be a part of my life, but I cannot continue to allow you to treat me this way. I cannot continue to sacrifice my wellbeing for the sake of maintaining this connection. So if things do not change...I am going to have to cut you out of my life. Not because I do not care about you or respect you...but because I care about and respect myself!!
Posted on: Sat, 29 Mar 2014 13:15:46 +0000
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