You know, I USUALLY dont say the things that I KNOW should be said and that I am feeling! BUT today is the day!!!!!!!!!! I AM TIRED! I will no longer dance around IT, or ignore IT AGAIN! IF you are offended by this, then you should be because the stuff you say or type is STUPIDNESS! TO: the STEP-mothers, daddys, aunties, uncles, grandparents, cousins, nay-sayers; whatever your category....... * I AM a single mother! NO REGRETS hands down! But before you judge me( with your NON-MASTER DEGREE ATTAINING selves), Walk a mile in my shoes, raising MY boys, go thru what we have been through AND then RE-Evaluate the thoughts you have of me, and how I am raising my boys! Just because my boys dads are having to do for them right now more than they ever have, SO WHAT! GET OVER IT! I have ALWAYs been my 3 boys backbone and will continue to raise them with GODS VALIDATION as I always have! AND if Richard and Tyrone are complaining about doing anything for them, THEN DONT DO IT! Material things dont make or break us! One thing I have always told JaKolbi Griffin, JaQuon Griffin, and Rishard Sullivan, It does not matter how you dress up the outside, especially when you have a nasty heart! I raise my boys to see the best in EVERYBODY even when you all spit on their name and try to degrade me! Remember, WE ARE DIFFERENT! And for those of you who are like, WHERE IS THIS COMING FROM, sit back and let me explain! I AM A SINGLE MOM! YES, I AM UNEMPLOYED -Just like 1/2 of America! YES I AM AN LPN! YES MY BOYS GO TO 3 DIFFERENT SCHOOLS! YES, Yes, yes............... NO, I WILL NOT WORK CRAZY NIGHT HOURS AND ALLOW MY BOYS TO BE HOME BY THEMSELVES AT NIGHT! NO, THEIR DADS WONT/CANT KEEP THEM AT NIGHT BECAUSE OF THE HOURS THEY HAVE TO BE AT WORK! NO, WE DONT LIVE IN A BIG HOUSE, even though your kids say hurtful stuff about where we live........SMH! NO.... I NO LONGER DRIVE A LUXARY VEHICLE, NOR DO I BEG ANY OF YALL TO DO ANYTHING FOR ME! Please know that I am A LOVING MOTHER; A GOOD-HEARTED WOMAN after Gods own heart! Yes, my kids have saw the struggle! OK, thats part of life of A REAL/ NOT FAKE woman! But please dont let your misconceptions of me allow your mind to believe that I am content with the valley situation that I am coming out of! See, people often talk about things that they TRULY dont know about! You only think you do! But I am TIRED of trying to defend myself to people who DONT VALIDATE ME! GOD validates me! See..... the way my MINDSET is, I have had to go through opposition so that God could show me that He is still God and show me that their is opportunity in my opposition! Oh, but I forgot, LOL IM DIFFERENT! IM so DIFFERENT that I can see that God is and has given and granted sooooo much FAVOR to me and my boys during this time that He has continued to keep blessing us, NO MATTER WHO HAS TO HELP US! See, I see my growth! I know who I am and WHOS I am! MY PRIDE IS GONE! I will NO LONGER entertain what u say or think about me because you are not THE CREATOR OF MY BEING nor did you create the BLUEPRINT of my life, NOR ARE YOU THE ONES WHO WILL GRANT US THE BLESSINGS THAT ARE STORED UP FOR US! Yeah, my kids recognize ALOT, even the stuff that you dont think they do! But IM REAL with my boys! I dont hide the realness from them! But THANK you for saying the things that you have said so that my testimony can be someone elses encouragement! No, I wont delete any of you! My enemies need to be around and get a front row seat to see how God remains faithful and is getting ready to show you how HE is lifting me up! I am just disheartened that you still chose to talk about people when they are down instead of encouraging them! REMEMBER, YOU AINT TO GOOD FOR GOD TO ALLOW YOU TO HAVE A VALLEY EXPERIENCE TOO! Dont forget where you came from, how you got what you got and who you got! OH, AND ONE LAST THING........ PLEASE DONT WORRY ABOUT WHY I AM ONE THE HIGHWAY WHEN I AM! So what that I choose to attend a church that is out out town and choose to sing on the Praise team at Oasis! OKAY, I would rather run the highway for God than to hump hwy 75 like yall do! If you are going to say something....... SAY IT! DONT throw stones and then hide your hands! #IM DIFFERENT!
Posted on: Sat, 09 Aug 2014 17:14:00 +0000
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