You know, I like the page this came from. But, I have to wonder how it is people (whoever this they are these things refer to) are supposed to sit and mourn those who would send them to these depressing places to begin with. For me, when I went through this it was because I had to look into the eyes of the most perfect human ever created (next to my daughter) and wonder why in the world he would want to leave and turn his back on something so special. (Even if he left but still could maintain some sort of relationship with the heart beat he helped me create). But then I realized that all were better off without him. You shouldnt force anyone to love anyone even their children. After time passes, the hurt fades only to be replaced with being thankful. The would have could have beens really arent worth it because everything happens for a reason. Sometimes the reason isnt so clear, but then even that has a purpose too doesnt it? Yes, perhaps one day (even if no one knows but that person) will regret not trying but dont think to much on it, anyone not worth trying for you or your family (the family they created too) isnt worth the energy to mourn.
Posted on: Sun, 02 Feb 2014 17:29:14 +0000