You know, my counselor (a woman) pointed out something crucial. When asked if she ever had any fear from accepting strangers into her class because they were men released from jail/prison, she said, That never crossed my mind because I never got defensive. Thats the problem with most women these days. They get defensive when approached by guys looking to get acquainted for possibly dating and/or relationship. You got to ask yourself, What am I defending from? Are you defending from a simple hello, a greeting, an invitation to meet in public, a date? Ladies, when you get defensive against guys, you already set up a scenario for yourself. You already made the intention negative when there was none. You already assumed the guy is a serial killer when he is a gentleman. You already gave the verdict when there wasnt a crime. Take risks, but be mindful, not judgmental.
Posted on: Sun, 29 Jun 2014 22:21:07 +0000
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