Your HUSBAND/Wife-- How do u knw he/she still loves you Some women/men are lucky enough never to have to ask the question, “how do I know if my husband/wife still loves me?” However, there are many men/women who find it difficult to express their feelings in words and this can lead to his partner feeling unsure of his/her love for him/her. As time goes by in a marriage, a man/women often doesn’t think it necessary to tell his/her wife/husband how much he/she loves her/him.(BUT SHOULD) This doesn’t necessarily mean he/she lost interest, it’s just that men/women think it unnecessary to keep reassuring their spouse how much they mean to them.(But they should) Women generally are far more outgoing in expressing themselves and can’t understand why men aren’t the same, but men are generally far more reserved. By taking care of his/her family and providing for them, a man/women is showing his/her love for them in the best way he/she can. He may not necessarily always say what you want to hear, but he/she will show it in the things he/she does for you and the children and in little gestures of affection. If he/she still wants to be with you and do things together then he obviously still has the love for you or heshe would make excuses and not be around so much. If you feel you’re losing his/her affection then try to understand what’s causing him/her to be distracted and do something about it.(NOW) He/she may be preoccupied with problems at work, in which case it helps to have someone to talk it over with. Don’t forget to greet him/her when he/she comes home with enthusiasm and a smile.(I Know sometimes thats hard) How nice to open the door to a warm welcome rather than a tired and grumpy one. If you want to keep your husbands/wifes love you have to make the home a haven at the end of the day for both of you. A happy atmosphere if possible makes so much difference to your soul, and helps you to overcome so many things in life. Love grows and deepens when you share things together and respect each other’s need for space. Marriage doesn’t mean you have to be in each other’s pockets all the time. Different activities and interests keep a marriage alive and make it grow. Realizing when your husband/wife is worried or unhappy means you care about him and the same applies in reverse. If your husband/wife doesn’t see when you’re unwell or feeling tired, then something is missing in your relationship and it’s time to rectify it.(Now not later) Don’t take him/her for granted, but don’t become part of the furniture in his/her life either. Love has to be fed or it will die and if you are endeavouring to keep the marriage harmonious then his/her love will continue to thrive. You will see this in the way he/she looks at you, and in the things he/she does for you. Unfortunately, when it starts feeling like your husband/wife is distant, it can be hard to find ways to connect. What makes it worse is when you start questioning your own feelings towards him, too. How do you know if he/she still loves you? Sometimes you have to take your relationship back to its beginnings . Begin working on rebuilding a friendship and the love will soon blossom again. Or even try just making him/her feel as important as you used to. I know for women its so important not only to be told I love you but to see it feel it. We need to knw we are important. We need to feel like we can come talk to you about anyth and knw your not going to get a attitude or defensive. Your feelings are just as important as his and they should act like it. We are emotional creatures women and thats what makes us speical. If he/she loves you like they say they do. Then they should not have a problem doing it.. Starting now not tomm.
Posted on: Thu, 26 Sep 2013 21:55:27 +0000
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