a man who will not cook, clean, AND lead has no right to think of marriage. if you cant take care of yourself, how could you take care of another? you cant please her if she has to constantly treat you like her child. get rid of those stereotypes, saying women are to cook and clean, make babies and sandwiches (though it may be funny between guys, not only does it get old, it isnt true and its seeming to be the only thing guys have on putting women below us). do for your lady as she would do 10Xs over, plus assume the role of a male, dont call a plumber fix the sink your damn self, learn to fix a flat at least! ive run across too many guys who dont know how to do basic things (you can watch a youtube video on how to do the latest dance crave but cant take the time to watch one to learn to tie a tie?)! the reason women had to cook and clean was NOT because thats their JOB but because society (which didnt include women back then) would not allow them to do anything other than that. times have changed and most women i know are doing much better than then guys i know, regardless of the mistakes they made in the past, they turn it into a blessing and provide for two, playing mommy and daddy, because lazy, shady, sad, pathetic so called men have run off, not to mention had no LEADERSHIP! as a man it IS your job to protect both you and the lady you are with, it IS your job to have the final say so in whether you will make that decision. scientifically speaking men are less emotional than most women, with that said, during the peak of your raging hormones the man is the one who can think more logically. As men we need to change. Children growing up in single family arrangements will only suffer, and continue the cycle, its time to step up! Claim your role, where your pride as proudly as you wear those new jordans. FIX your mistakes, and in the future DONT make mistakes (you know right from wrong so i can hardly call them mistakes). if you feel so strongly about a woman cooking and cleaning then you know she shouldnt have to work a day in her life, she shouldnt have to check her bank account to see if she needs to sell her food stamps to buy uniforms for her child, she shouldnt have to worry about how she is going to cut her water back on. all she does is cook and clean remember, your the one who LEADS, the one who manages the money, so that she doesnt go out and spend it all on clothes, shoes, makeup, you know all those things that make a woman beautiful or so we have portrayed for some dumbass reason (story for another day), its your job to do everything with the exception of cooking and cleaning. just remember that next time you decide that your girl has to be the one to cook and clean.
Posted on: Mon, 04 Aug 2014 22:49:19 +0000
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