by Neil Anderson October 16 The Primary Labortory Colossians 3:18-21 Wives, be subject to your husbands . . . Husbands, love your wives . . . Fathers, do not exasperate your children God works in our lives primarily through committed relationships. Your family is the primary laboratory for your character development. This is precisely the order of Scripture: Establish your identity in Christ, then focus on living out who you are at home. Notice the order in Colossians 3:10-25; Gods great goal for His children is that we conform to His image: Put on the new self (verse 10). Our identity is no longer in racial, religious, cultural or social ties: There is no distinction . . . but Christ is all and in all (verse 11). Character is the focus of development once identity is established: Put on a heart of compassion, kindness, humility, gentleness and patience (verse 12). Character is developed in the context of relational living: Bearing with one another, and forgiving each other (verse 13). Love is the highest level of character development: Beyond all these things put on love (verse 14). The means by which all this is accomplished is Christ in you: Let the peace of Christ rule in your hearts . . . Let the word of Christ richly dwell within you (verses 15, 16). The primary setting for character development is the home: Wives, be subject to your husbands . . . Husbands, love your wives . . . Children, be obedient to your parents . . . Fathers, do not exasperate your children (verses 18-21). As a parent, you are not just shaping your childs behavior, you are developing his character. Training a child means discipling him to be Christlike. Dont be a phony at home; your spouse and children will see right through it. You cant model perfection, but you can model growth. Prayer: Lord, help me be the spouse and parent You want me to be by remaining committed to be a growing child of God.
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