hmm, ja, ja, v fazi sm, ko mi dol visi za zunanje ženske..ok, kaj to pomen?! da ne iščem ničesar, da s prstom ne mignem, da tut mal ne skrenem iz lastne orbite, da bi spoznal kakšno...kar ne pomeni, da jih ne spoznavam, al pa da mam karkol proti ženskam...ne, sploh ne, sej pravim, obožujem jih, ampak vem, da mi ne morejo ničesar dat in da nimam česa vzet...če me razumeš!? da si moram sam dat, kar sem nekoč pričakoval od njih, da mi lahko samo notranja ženska da, kar naj! bi mi, in mi zato nikoli ni - ker ni bilo možno, dala zunanja... :P Q: Is psychology more practical than spirituality? A: Nothing is more practical than spirituality*. What can the poor psychologist do? He can only relieve the pressure. I’m a psychologist myself, and I practice psychotherapy, and I have this great conflict within me when I have to choose sometimes between psychology and spirituality. I wonder if that makes sense to anybody here. It didn’t make sense to me for many years. I’ll explain. It didn’t make sense to me for many years until I suddenly discovered that people have to suffer enough in a relationship so that they get disillusioned with all relationships. Isn’t that a terrible thing to think? They’ve got to suffer enough in a relationship before they wake up and say, “I’m sick of it! There must be a better way of living than depending on another human being.” And what was I doing as a psychotherapist? People were coming to me with their relationship problems, with their communication problems, etc., and sometimes what I did was a help. But sometimes, I’m sorry to say, it wasn’t, because it kept people asleep. Maybe they should have suffered a little more. Maybe they ought to touch rock bottom and say, “I’m sick of it all.” It’s only when you’re sick of your sickness that you’ll get out of it. Most people go to a psychiatrist or a psychologist to get relief. I repeat: to get relief. Not to get out of it! de mello, awareness * and what is spirituality!? simply being your - (re) integrated - self
Posted on: Mon, 26 Jan 2015 11:41:51 +0000
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