#inspiring ESSAY: 7 Love Boosting Tools - To Make Sure You Soulmate Doesnt Start Feeling Like Your Ol Mate! QUICK EXCERPT There is no such thing as a perfect partner. Nobody’s perfect. Everyone of us has a little streak of jerk . You’re never going to find perfect, custom-fit love in a world of off-the-rack people. If you want to be part of a perfect couple, you must accept you will be part of an “imperfect couple.” You will have ebbs in all your fun-filled flow. You will not always feel 100 percent in love with your partner, 100 percent of the time. And that’s okay. Translation? True love is what happens when disappointment sets in and disagreements unfold. In my book PRINCE HARMING SYNDROME I share an interesting finding from John Gottman, founder of The Love Lab. Gottman can predict if a relationship will survive—not based on how well a couple gets along, but by how well they don’t get along. He believes a couple is only as strong as their weakest moments and how they handle disappointments and disagreements. Another interesting love factoid: Gottman also discovered that long-term, happily married couples disagree just as much as couples who divorce. The big difference? Happily married couples accept there will be disagreements. Happily married couples value growing and working through problems—for the sake of being in a long-term, supportive, thriving relationship. CLICK TO READ MORE & GET 7 LOVE BOOSTING TOOLS!
Posted on: Sun, 14 Dec 2014 17:40:22 +0000
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