love is responsible by a page out of my love dare book - TopicsExpress

love is responsible by a page out of my love dare book when you Judge another you condemn yourself since you the judge, do the same thing Romans 2:1 today will be hard. But as you seek God’s strength and wisdom, you will be able to get through it. This day could be a milestone in your marriage if you allow it to be. So resolve to focus on what the lord may be saying to you purpose to follow his leading. today is about personal responsibility. It’s something we all we all agree other should have, but struggle with to maintain it ourselves. Over the past few decades, there’s been a decline in personal responsibility. More and more, people seem less likely to acknowledge their own mistakes. We see it in politics. we it in business. We see it in celebrity headlines. but this is not just a problem with the rich and famous, to find an example of some who has an excuse for every action. all we need to do is look in the mirror. we are so quick to justify our motives, so quick to find fault especially with our love ones/family/spouse. Who is always the easiest one to blame? we tend to believe that our views are correct or at least much more correct then our love ones/family/spouse. We don’t believe anybody giving our same set of circumstances, would act much differently than we have. As far as we’re concerned, we’re doing the best we can and our spouse just ought to be glad we’re as good to them as we are. But love doesn’t pass the blame so easily or justify selfish motives. love is not nearly concerned with its own performance as with others needs when love takes responsibility for its actions it’s not to prove how noble you’ve been but rather to admit how much father you have to God. Love does not make excesses. Love keeps working to make a difference with your family/love ones/spouse that’s why next time you’re in a argument with your family/love ones/ spouse instead of working on comebacks stop and see if there is something worth listening to in what you family/ love ones/ spouse is saying. What might happen in your relationship life if instead of passing blame? You first omitted your own wrongs first. As it was written rebuke is more effective for a wise man then hundred of blows on a fool proverbs 17:10 Love is responsible and is willing to admit and correct its faults and errors up front. Are you taking responsibility you chose to be your spouse lover and the same for the family you had no chose to be born in How deliberately are you about making sure your spouse needs are mate? or you concern with your mate only fulfilling yours our it’s only about you and what you won’t around love ones. it’s a call of love and responsibility for are partners and the ones that tagged loved ones in our lives. it’s time for love and honor and to cherish who we clam by loves name. have you said or done thing that to your love ones. Have you said and done things to God that are wrong. Love desires to have both relations right with God and your love ones. once that’s right, the stage is set for other areas to fall into place. Real repentance may take a while to grow in you. Pride is very resistant to responsibility but humility and honesty before God and your love ones is crucial for healthy relationships. this does not mean you’re always wrong and your love ones/family/ spouse is always right. This is not a demand that you’re a doormat. but if there is something not right between you and God or you and your family/love ones/ spouse then that should be your first priority. if we say we have no wrongs /bad/sin we are deceiving our self’s and the truth is not in us 1jhon 1:8 if we confuses our sins/ God is faithful to forgive us and to cleanse us form all unrighteousness. 1jon 1:9 confess your first and the you be on better ground to work things out with your spouce. in order to walk with God and keep his favor, you must stay clean before him. that don’t mean you never stumble but to confess it to God and and ask for forgiveness when you do. can your spouse say that you have wronged or wounded them in any way and never made it right? part of taking responsibility is admitting when you have failed and asking for forgiveness. It’s time to humble yourself and correct yourself God wont there to be no unresolved. ask him to show you were you have failed In your responsibilities. Then get right with him first, once you done that you need to get right with your folk/lover/whoever. it can be the most difficulties thing ever done lol. But it’s crucial to taking the next step in your life in relationship with him and mankind. if you are sincere you may be surprised at the grace and strength God gives you when you take this step. take the time to pray though your areas of wrongdoing. ask for God to forgiveness then humble yourself to admit them to you love ones, do it sincerely and truthfully. ask your love ones for forgiveness as well, make sure you cover your responsibilities in love. even if they respond with criticism accept it by receiving it as counsel. I dare you