*not my words but very interesting... Whenever people do something together there is a norm on how to act and what to do – a norm on how a the situation should turn out. If you and people around you wont talk about the whats, hows and whys, everything will turn out as the norm dictates. Communication, common action and a will to change is the only way to break free from the norms. Radical relationships must have open discussions as their main component, not as a state of emergency. Remember that trust is your most important tool. We are so used to people never quite saying what they actually mean, that we have to search for and try to interpret what theyre really after. These assumptions are always based on societal norms or your previous experiences, which isnt necessarily true in your relationship. Talk to each other!
Posted on: Wed, 23 Oct 2013 09:03:50 +0000
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