often in projection there is an element of forgiveness necessary. if you cannot forgive someone for their errors, you may be unwilling to offer them (see them in) a new light. This is a kind of revenge where you condemn someone to a particular negative trait. This person may have the opposing positive quality there too and may even try to change, but if they show you any signs of the negative trait, you insist it as still being there and there for that is who they are! This is very destructive for self an other....
Posted on: Thu, 28 Nov 2013 09:15:24 +0000