#relationshipMonday - inbox me a question and a number. Ill post 9021 - Q: I have a 21 year old son and his father owes me $31,000 in back child support and throughout the years I never pressed the issue for him to pay. He has always been verbally abusive. But I never spoke down about him to our son. On his 16th birthday he texted my son and told him how much he hated him and wishes he was dead. All I want to do is cut all ties with him. Do you think its stupid to write to the state and cancel all child support against him? I hurt want to break all ties with him. A: Thank you for asking...While I certainly hurt for your son and I do understand the natural reflex of yours to want to break all ties with his father. Humbly speaking maam, that is not your place. That young man of yours is keeping record of the damage that his father is doing and in time he and his dad will have a day of reckoning. His dad will have to give an account to him on those painful words. If you interfere at all, my concern is somewhere down the line, you may be held responsible for that. Allow your son to make his own judgment. In the child support matter. The only one thats going to suffer from the $31,000 will once again be your son. College is around the corner and you guys can use the money for that. So canceling his child support debt is not a recommended option either. With anger and all, please keep your sons needs first. There will come a day in both of their lives when they will need each other.
Posted on: Mon, 31 Mar 2014 13:38:08 +0000
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