so heres my take on tswift (and fair warning this is going to end up with a whole other point by the end of it) because ive been seeing a lot about her new album of course and i personally really like it for the most part. ive always been a fan of her songs and lyrics but obviously she didnt fall under the category of country artist. i feel like it was a good idea for her to cross over into a different genre label and call her music style what it is, which i like all types of music and i think shes a great artist. i think she writes songs about how she actually feels and not just what people wanna hear (obviously because who isnt sick of hearing about tswifts relationships?) i recently read something that she said though that encouraged me to actually listen to some of the songs from her new album. and i can relate to her point. we all know shes dated A LOT. so who cares? maybe she believed in something. maybe, like me, she wanted to take chances or rather, give chances. i used to agree with that so much. one day its gonna happen. one day someone will come along who knows what they want and who understands what a relationship is meant to be. its not meant to be perfect. sometimes youll have to work on it. but our generation, in a lot of ways, is lazy. a lot of people that i know expect things to just work or happen because thats what they want. well thats not the case at all. after all the years since ive started dating and hoping for something to stick, ive learned that nothing really does, no matter whos to blame. i used to be a believer in working out problems and sticking through things and holding on to people who made you happy. and like her, ive grown tired of doing that. i dont care anymore. not in a bitter way. just in a, people dont get it way. like i said, ive never claimed perfection. ive screwed up plenty of times, like everyone else. i never used to give up on people unless they gave up on me first. but thats the point. they all did. ive been thinking about this a lot lately, from a happy place and from an understanding place. my point is, i agree with her. its ok to not have a love life. its ok to not want one, that doesnt make me bitter or weird. it just means in the time that ive spent trying to figure out what i want, i just ended up figuring out what i dont want instead.
Posted on: Sun, 16 Nov 2014 21:35:11 +0000
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