today go to market seeing one infant cry out loud to ask for something and I hear his mother say bu keyi (can not). Many thing parent try to prevent the kids because they think they protect them. Many doctor many Journalist advise us something and we tends to believe immediately, the herd concept strong effect to our thought and we dont care much what our body tell us, what our children ask for. I live in different culture people advise me differently so I decide to test thing myself and find out simple knowledge what causes harm to this person may be good for another. When newly being a mother I often confuses so much for different advice finally I decide to eat the same with my kid though suffering hunger I eat the same what she can eat and when having not enough nutrition I start having strong desire for sweet taste, immediately I remove the ban of not having candy to her. When my daughter cant eat I persuade her to drink milk by all means though my daughter tries to refuse when visiting doctor he tells me more problem caused to her stomach by milk supply. By then, I never ask her what she doesnt like and she gets used to it until going to school. The most challenging in school is pupil must listen to teacher, my daughter is going to school in some more years and I know the terrible time is coming I must work hard to tell her, this is her world and she is the one who create it and none have right to tell her what to feel and how to do, not teacher nor parent. Its quite hard when all her friend listens to teacher what she might do is following. At least she can bathe her mind with two cultures to see how fun the concept of human is by then she can have her own point of view.
Posted on: Sat, 04 Oct 2014 17:45:49 +0000
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