when i was in my first year in school, in had a very good GP... in fact i was the second in my department. The same continue in my second year... i became a scholar which i was in secondary school. Everybody just want to associate with me because i am very social despite i am a book worm. All through my first and second year i was never in a serious relationship... i just play along. In my third year, i meet this beautiful lady who caught my attention and i was able to get her easily because she knows i am a smart intelligent guy... We started and it was so sweet because she was a very nice girl who was always there... we spent most time having fun because the relationship was still fresh and i also want to do things to please her... During the process my time of reading was limited... I assisted her more in her academic work and less for mine but we are not in same department... I was shocked when i checked my first semester result... my GP dropped, i was very angry and i decided to quit the relationship but we talked about it and i let it go... i told myself i will try and improve on my reading skills... In my second semester my result was better but it was not what i have targeted to obtain... It was so obvious to me when my friends i was doing better than top me in my third year... that is when i concluded my relationship is taking me down... i thought playing around and not having anything serious is the best because that is what i did in my first and second year and it work excellently.. I decide to have a break in my first semester fourth year... no visitation, no romance, no calls or messages... it really affected her but i just have to do it to top my class which is my priority... that semester in had the second best GP... I so smiled and said i can still come out the best. i later settle with her and apologize. I knew my relationship with my girlfriend was my barrier. I am at the verge of quitting the relationship so i can have my full time to invest in my academics so i can be at the top... i told her last week and she was crying... i just dont want to hurt her because she has been a loving and caring lady... she has stood by me in so many ways but i just want to go back to be the scholar i have always been... i am confused. i dont know if quitting the relationship is the best decision... i really need your advise...
Posted on: Thu, 04 Sep 2014 17:38:36 +0000