Dear Lulu; I am a 23year old female. My parents died when i was 8 yrs and so i dropped out of school because no-one could afford enough money to pay my fees. I then met this guy when i was 14 and he struggled to send me back to school. He was selling fruit by the street just to pay my fees. He then got a job as a truck driver and continue to send me to school even to the university, of which i am eternally grateful to him for... indeed there are angels made by God to help the needy in times of trouble. My problem is that i feel i cant continue with this relationship because he is not my type, i am not the girl that i used to be when he first saw me, dont get it wrong, i am honestly appreciative of what God has used him to do in my life but i just cant get totally committed to him based on pity or how he helped me. So im thinking How best can i tell him that he is not my type without hurting his feelings?? I am grateful that he sent me to school but i cant be in a relationship with him anymore. I want somebody of my own class not a truck driver. Please Advice me
Posted on: Sat, 08 Nov 2014 13:55:05 +0000