During one of our biggest misunderstandings,my husband and I disagreed about something and I did what I have always done when I had a difference of opinion with someone... I called my brother!!! But this time, before I could even finish my sentence,he asked me if I had prayed about it yet. Before I could respond, he told me that he would not have me call him and complain about my husband to him nor would he allow me to discuss our arguments/disagreements with him again. I sat down stunned. Then he said something that has stuck with me for a very long time. Little sister, the thing is;because you love your husband the way you do; when the argument is over, its over!! But I dont love him as much as you do, so it would be far too easy for me to pick up a grudge and carry it if I think hes the one wrong. You cant do that to me or to him. It simply isnt fair. So the next time you want to narrate the fight in your marriage to a third party, Ask yourself; Do I love my spouse? Does the person am narrating and reporting to love him the way I do?? Will they easily forgive him the way I gladly will? If not then dont pass them on to be crucified. Hope ur day is unfolding fabulously!! Hv a lovely monday yall.
Posted on: Mon, 14 Oct 2013 09:14:33 +0000
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