Experience with Narcissistic Abuse is one of the reasons I detest the throwing around of cliches and memes and phrases as truths to live by. Because I have had them used against me to manipulate, con and guilt trip me into complying with and staying with an abuser. Be aware. Thats the only way to protect yourself from becoming a target/victim. Re-evaluate what forgiveness means. Know that to forgive someone does not mean you have to stay and wallow in the mire with them or continue to let them abuse you. Did anybody here grow up with an understanding that a creature could convey a complete and loving relationship to con you out of your life? I love you! As simple as those words are they are three of the most complex and most emotional words that a person can say to another. They are meant to convey a real message, one that entails a bond that is so special that two people will grow together, trust one another with their lives, build dreams on, and perhaps even produce a family based on this connection AND MANY DO. These are words that we grew up with and understood so clearly. These are the very words that a Narcissist hangs their hat on and opens the door up to manipulate, objectify, betray, weaken, damage, disable and extort everything they can from a target/victim. These are the very words that are pathological in nature as it concerns the empty soul of a Narcissist and their real agenda to harvest us for supply. They are uttered with such a complete and seamless reality that they unlock the very souls and mind of the person that gets trapped in the Narcissist’s big lie and con job!
Posted on: Sat, 20 Dec 2014 14:42:00 +0000
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